Then when I saw the movie, I was blown away about how they support each other. They've very into each others needs that only one and the other can fulfill. Trinity/Neo's relationship may not be based on laughter and fun unfortunately due to the fact that the Matrix isn't a romantic comedy, it is a drama. So goes for Harry Potter. If romantic love is going to have a spot in the main plot, I would see her go the path of the Matrix, where love is pivotal, but it doesn't solely revolve around the main plot.
