Isn't there an inherent contradiction in these statements?
Friendship, in itself, is a form of love; in fact, as I think a lot of people from all ships understand and accept, friendship is a stepping stone to "love" (of the marrying kind).
Second, if the "amazing friendship" is as strong as we believe it to be, it will survive and grow -- even become deeper yet -- if any of the two hook up.
To say that this amazing friendship will break up because two of them hook up will, to my mind, speak more of immaturity and a weak friendship than the "amazing" friendship that you see.
I will not expound on this point anymore, since it seems that you would prefer "no ships" but friendship; it is not for me or anyone else to make you change your mind.
Your choice.
In the same sense, if you feel that all these shipping talks bothers you or annoys you, please feel free to 'vote with your feet.' There are more than enough forums on PK and other sites where shipping is not discussed.
Thank you.
gil